Wednesday, May 23

Happy Father's Day from Treat!!

Treat Father's Day Greeting Cards

Between now and 11:59pm (Pacific Time) tonight you can get a FREE Father’s Day card from Treat!
Just use the code TREATDAD and enjoy a free, customized, card. This offer applies to all new and returning customers.
Here is how it works:
·         You choose your card from their hundreds of Father’s Day designs.
·         Personalize it with photos, nicknames, inside jokes, whatever you want to add. This is your chance to make it YOUR card. Be creative. Be funny. Be sappy. Make dad laugh, cry, or just smile.
·         Use the code TREATDAD to get this special deal. (Note: This offer is good all customers, whether this is your first time or 100th time using Treat).
Treat will truly brighten your day…and your dad’s! So check them out now and take advantage of this awesome offer!
Note: You can choose the “Send it to me first” shipping option to receive the card free. If you choose “Mail it directly to the recipient,” you will be charged $0.44 for postage. Limit one per household. You will also be asked for their credit card to verify your identity and prohibit fraud, but you will not be charged for a free card if you mail to yourself.

Tuesday, May 8

Couponing with Katy: Part 1


 This is the first in a multi-part series on couponing!!  They will be guest posted by Katy of The Frugal Chicks.  I will also be posting some info about organizing your coupons and the different binder/organizers out there. Enjoy!! ~Allison
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 Change the way you menu plan, grocery shop, the way you eat, get ready for a NEW outlook on the grocery store!

~ No more late afternoon runs to the grocery store to get what you need for dinner

~ No more weekly menu with its accompanying list of groceries to be purchased regardless of price

~ No More Huge monthly Shopping trips

~ No more wholesale club size Mustard to store somewhere...

~ No more running out of dish detergent, toilet paper, paper towels and spending a fortune on them.

Get ready for using coupons to buy items and stock piling when items are at the lowest price point.  Someone loose a job?  Lose some extra income?  No problem! Your stock pile will keep you going for some time.  Menu plan on what it is on sale and in your freezer.  You will learn to shop, be organized when shopping, and save $$ in your pocket!  So let's get started with where to find coupons....

Once you get started couponing, you will start noticing them everywhere...
And so will your children.  My kids will go MOM it's a coupon ohhhhh and come running with them in their hands.  Start ‘em young is what I say!

Places to find coupons:
1. Inserts from your local newspaper or an insert company
2. Printable Coupons
3. Peelies, Catalina's, tear pads, and blinkies
4. Facebook, Manufacture sites, in store promotions
5. All You Magazine

So let's start with talking about #1 Inserts. Inserts can be found in your Sunday paper (sometimes weekly papers also). There are three different inserts that come out on a regular basis: Smart Source (SS), Red Plum (RP) and Procter & Gamble (PG). I always suggest buying 4 papers’ so that you have multiple coupons for awesome deals like free deodorant, razors, toothpaste, etc.You can always to subscribe to your local paper.

I have read many theories into what makes one newspaper's inserts better... Some suggest its cost of living for the area, hence why many extreme couponers tend to order West Coast Inserts while living on the east coast. You can also order online from various insert companies. One I have used is  www.MadCoupons.net

#2. Printable coupons
Printing coupons from your home computer is safe, free and easy! The first time you print from any source, you’ll be required to download quick and safe software so that you can print securely from home. After the software is installed, printing coupons is just a click away! Most only allow you to print twice per IP address. I tend to print what it will allow me too. (You’re saving up for a big sale) Some sites to check out are:

3. Peelies, Catalina’s, Blinkies, Tear pads:
Catalina: They are coupons that print out at the register after your sale is complete. It is a separate machine that is just for printing out coupons or dollars off. Sometimes abbreviated as “CAT”, Catalina coupon machines located at register dispense long receipt-like coupons that may be used on a future purchase. Catalina’s, refer to the coupons themselves which may be manufacturer or store coupons. Some Catalina coupons are advertised and some are generated based on consumer behavior.
To find out what Catalina's or sometimes called "Your Bucks" are in your stores/area, go here: Catalina's

Blinkie: (Red Smart Source machines in a lot of stores).Manufacturer coupons dispensed by coupon machines found in grocery aisles next to products. Recognize them by the blinking red light. Dispenses coupons one at a time in intervals. Manufacturer blinkie coupons may be redeemed at any store, not necessarily the store in which you found them.

Tearpad: Coupon pads located in stores to promote products. Tear pad manufacturer coupons may be used at any store, not just the one where you found the coupon.

Peelie: Adhesive manufacturer coupons found on products in the store. Peelies are often good on a wider selection of products than the one it is stuck to. Be sure to read the fine print on the peelie to discover if the coupon may be used on a smaller size or different variety of the same product, to allow you to maximize savings.
 
4. Facebook, texts, manufactures sites, in store promotions, rebates:
If you haven't noticed all the manufacturer's offering special deals and coupons on Facebook, what Rock have you been hiding under? As I stated earlier you will start to notice coupons everywhere. We post coupons like this as soon as we spot them on our Facebook page. Manufacture sites also have coupons to print (we post these too).   P&G has a site where you can sign up to get coupons mailed to you every quarter, with some great deals inside.

Another great way to get high value coupons is rebates, where you send in a receipt, and you get a coupon book back. Sometimes Stores have in store promos where you can taste a product and get a coupon.

5. All You Magazine is a wonderful magazine you can pick up at Wal-Mart or subscribe to that is chock full of coupons every month. 
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Katy is a 30 something mom of 3 who loves coupons, meal planning, and feeding her family healthy, natural, and organic for as cheap as possible. She has one daughter who suffers from numerous food allergies, and a son with autism. It took a revolution for her to figure out that what they eat affects them a LOT. She has been using coupons since she was a teenager, but just recently started the big stores like CVS, Walgreens etc. She was taught how to coupon by her great aunts who are now 90 and 98 and continue to shop Only on Weds at Kroger. Katy has a blog at http://totallyrandomkaty.blogspot.com/ 

Thursday, April 26

Booke Review: A Secret Wish

Title: A Secret Wish
Author: Barbara Freethy   http://www.barbarafreethy.com/

Description: Three women, three birthdays and one unforgettable night that will change their lives forever. One night in San Francisco, three women make a birthday wish believing it can't possibly come true.  Three women, three birthdays and a night of events that connects them in unexpected ways ...

I absolutely loved this book!!  As a woman who just turned the big 3-0, I really connected to all main characters, who are all turning a milestone birthday on the same day.  

Liz is turning thirty. She is a nurse but is lacking in the love department.  She is not a risk taker and because of that keeps settling for jerky, "safe" boyfriends.  Will she ever have that crazy, amazing love?

Angela is turning 35 and wants a baby.  But after failed attempts at in-vetro, will she have to give up her dream of being a mom?

Carole is turning 40 and realizes that even though she appears to have it all she is deeply unhappy.  She is a wife to a politician, has tons of money, and two kids.  But her life is lacking so she she goes back to her roots to find out how she got so lost.

All 3 women, separately, decide to make a crazy, unrealistic wish.  They rest of the book is the journey these women go on and how they all manage to get their wish.

This is a great short novel, to remind us all that if we are unhappy, we are the only ones who can change it.  We must not be content to watch our life go by, we need to be living it.  This book c ame out in Jan 2012 and book 2 in the wish series is called Just a Wish Away and comes out this spring.

Tuesday, April 24

The "Mommy" Wars

  It seems like the last month or so, all I "hear" about online is "Mommy" Wars. * Breastfeeders VS. Bottle Feeders.   *SAHM VS Working Moms.  *"Veteran" Moms VS New Moms.  *Cloth Diapering VS Disposables.  *Moms VS Women who choose to not Procreate.  When did parenting become a sport?  It has even  boiled over into Women VS Women.  Can't we all just get along?  Why do we as women feel the need to not only belittle each other but see it as socially acceptable?

I was reading The Bloggess the other day and saw that she had been on CNN, to talk about the Hillary Rosen/Ann Romney dispute.  Which I actually think it is kind of funny.  If you haven't heard {cause who has time to watch the news when you have kids?} Mitt Romney has been saying "well my wife thinks this is economically important to woman or my wife says this about the economy..."  To which Hilary Rosen said "What does Ann Romney know about the economy? She has never worked a day in her life"  Now being a SAHM is a lot of work so Hilary never should have said that but my thought is really what do any politicians know about us Americans? MOST come from old money, and have never worked a real job {I'm talking McDonald's here not working as a Senator.. Just saying}  When have they ever had to worry about making ends meet? But I digress.  WOMEN STOP BASHING EACH OTHER TO MAKE YOUR HUSBANDS LOOK BETTER!!!!

I see all these posts about "Tips for First Time Moms"  and "What to expect After the Hospital" and guess what they are all a load of BS!!  Here is the only thing first time Moms need to know: Do whatever works for you!   And don't feel guilty if your original plan doesn't work.  Breast feed if that works if not use formula and bottles.  My first 3 kids were bottle fed, my last 2 were breastfed 10 months and 2+ years.  Which was better? Depends.  There are pros and cons to both.  Breastfeeding can be extremely painful for the first few months but it is so nice to be able to roll over and feed the baby instead of getting up and making a bottle.  But it is a pain to pump and have bottles if you want to go out without the baby.

It is also important to remember that what works for 1 child may not work for the others.  Blake hardly ever slept if he could hear adults up and awake.  Kayla could sleep through anything and even napped in her room.  The 2 little boys nap in the living room and all but Mason sleep in their room.  Mason at almost 3 still sleeps at least part of the night in my bed. But I don't mind because he is cuddly and I know that soon enough he will be big and not want to sleep with us.

I have been a SAHM and I have been a working Mom and I am currently a Working with Children at the Shop MOM {yeah it's real fun}.  If I had plenty of money and could do whatever I wanted, I would be a SAHM.  Mostly cause I don't have to wear pants, well real pants, I still wear yoga pants at home.  It is hard work, but it is still easier than leaving your kids, working and then coming home at night to parent.  But for some people that is the perfect mix of adult interaction and then being with their kids at night.

I think we as women need to stop judging others and let everyone have the same privileges we expect: to make our own choices.  We have all made mistakes so instead of complaining about the single mom with kids who are in front of you in line at Walmart having meltdowns, maybe offer assistance or even a kind word.  Life isn't a war and contrary to popular belief, we are all on the same side.  Life isn't about doing things the "right" way but about doing them the way that works best for you. And remember at the end of the day, if you have healthy happy kids, and a great relationship with your spouse, then nothing else matters. ♥ Love Wins ♥

Friday, April 13

Fast Facts Friday #15

1.  What was your first car?  A '95, Hunter Green Ford Taurus.  HORRIBLE!!
2.  Who was your first crush?   I guess a boy named James in 6th grade.
3.  Where was your first apartment away from your parents?  I moved in with a friend my senior year of high school.
4.  Where was your first airplane flight to?  I flew back to San Diego from Sacramento.
5.  What was the first school you attended?  I started kindergarten at La Mesa Dale. 

Sunday, April 8

4 out of 5 isn't bad... Right??

I have successfully potty trained 4 kids.  WHY does #5 have to be the deal breaker? I have tried all the usual tricks and nothing is working.  He wants to wear underwear but then pees (mostly poops) in them. 

We have tried:
 ~buying his favorite character underwear
~sticker chart
~ Sitting on the potty every 15 minutes. {he will climb off and walk out of the bathroom to poop in his underwear}
~M&M's each time he at least tries (1), more for pee (3), even more for poop (5).
~getting a toy and he can't open it til he is accident free for 1 week

Did I miss anything??  Last week he was accident free  {day/night, nap time and going out} for 3 days and then poop in his underwear twice in 1 day.  Everyday for 3 days.  Finally I put him back in diapers.  He was mad and threw a fit but I can't deal with anymore poopy underwear. 

I guess when he is really ready he will just do it right?  No one has ever had a first grader wearing underwear right??  Right??  I would love some tips and tricks.  Maybe you know something that worked that I have missed.  Thanks!!!

Friday, April 6

Fast Facts Friday #14

1.  Where did you go on your favorite Spring Break?  Palm Springs, CA
2.  Who were you with?  My mom and 2 sisters
3.  What/where was your lamest Spring Break?  Started great but I ended up sunburning my eyes and couldn't open them for 3 days and was in excruciating pain.
4.  What was the craziest thing you did on a Spring Break?   Went snow skiing.
5.  What do you love about Spring Break?  It is warm and sunny but not yet hot and humid.